Alec to his parents:
Dear Mum and Dad
Many thanks for latest letter which arrived in time to be taken out on our shopping-cum-haircutting expedition on Saturday morning. While the girls and June were having their haircut I had a wander round the shops at Eastcote, then returned to the car and had a read of the letter and the paper (Mercury) – what more could you want from a Saturday morning?* I doubt if there will be any delays now that the G.P.O. is functioning normally.
You seem to be having a deal of trouble with these Fortifone people, and it will be interesting to hear what their local agent says and does.
I have not heard that the girls have broken any crocks in their endeavours at the sink, but it is significant that two more cups are now without handles. I am aware that little girls want to help, at least that is what they call it, but as you know it is not always for the best. This morning Carol was practically in tears when she was not allowed to carry in the fried breakfast on plates that were red hot. She said she only wanted to help. The issues in the garden are clear enough, they can have the lion’s share of it to do more or less what they like, and there is a small part where they can do nothing at all. The latter is essential if one is to produce anything at all.**
Re: the Benns’ proposed move, they were again at Clevedon this weekend, with the intention of visiting the Council and making enquiries about the school situation. They had intended to return today, but late last night Eric appeared and asked if he could leave his car in the sideway. He did not volunteer any information and I did not ask. It seems they all like the site, and the question resolved itself on the school position. What the ultimate decision is I do not know. we had already given them our brochure on Clevedon including the streetmap, and of course the one you got them to send is now a spare. I gather from June that Mrs Benn had said that the builder in question was named Venn, only one letter changed from their own. This confirms your findings.***
Had no idea that Bush was so ill. He was a man that I never had any dealings with. Apart from recognising him, and passing the time of day I never had any sort of conversation with him as far as I can recall. They must have been in the Avenue since the Joneses left and that I think was well before the war.
It is not difficult to hear voices through the wall of the house. I think ours must have been thrown up or blown up.
The Reading Shunters took a vote last Sunday and again rejected Work Study investigations. The Goods Guards however were favourably disposed and will probably ask us to do them. This presents its own problems of course, because no one has done schemes for Goods Guards yet.
Good to know what you are paying rates for. You could probably have calculated your share of the council offices.
Yes the thing to do when strikes occur is not to travel in the area affected – if possible go the other way – as demonstrated. There may or may not be another 1926, but there is no doubt that government is turning the screw ever more tightly, and although we are among the strata affected by the pause, feel it is the right and only course. After all it is the duty of the government to govern, and not let someone else to do it by pressure.
Note the position with your seedlings. Talking of shallots, we have been having pickled onions for several months now. They were your shallots originally, and very nice and mild they are.
Wail from the sideway where Susan has fallen over and grazed her hands, she had only been out there for about thirty seconds. Carol being dressed up to go out there – and do the same no doubt.****
Some weeks ago I tasted my February 1959 Parsnip (Bravery) and decided I ought to do something to improve the taste? I added a few teaspoonfuls of sugar to one bottle, and put it back in the cupboard. Since then it has restarted to ferment, and every now and then we get a minor explosion from the cupboard – have to search for the cork, and replace.
Two ivies which were left out of doors seem to be in good order, but I have not seen the one we took indoors lately.
Sorry about your Mediterranean cruise. If you rely on the P.B.s you will get it some day. Just about as reliable as the football pools.
All the electrical improvements mean bigger electricity bills of course, but again, the more electricity we use, the less coal is required.
Could not say what the drawings are meant to be, your guess is as good as mine. By the way the biro marks were on the paper, and not on the letter. Probably nothing to do with you, but put on idly by the children.*****
Did not know Gordon Cleverly had a house out that way at all. Last I heard of him, he was in Gardens Road. Just as well that the plot overlooks the Swiss Valley and not the sea. It is a mixed blessing facing the sea. Probably the best view around your way is of the Swiss Valley from any angle.
When you get to Smith’s Crisps factory make sure you ask them to get the paper which surrounds the salt coloured with luminous paint for the benefit of people eating crisps in the pictures. Always a job to find the salt.******
Have seen no crocuses out this way yet. The weather today is good, as was yesterday, and no doubt will get things moving.
Fetched some more stones of the field yesterday, with three helpers. The underlayer is now moving appreciably towards the house, but we have run out of ash so the bulk of the stones remain uncovered. Shall have to start getting earth from somewhere to cover them up. Could get some grass seeds sown next month if it is ready. I think I shall have to square off the parts so far treated, and get it covered with earth and sown. The remainder can then wait till next year. Got four barrow loads of stones from a field that I had scoured only a few weeks ago.*******
Thanks again for the paper. Hope you are both keeping well, as we seem to be again. If you do not want to have all the cider, why not turn some of it into apple cider wine (Bravery). Might be an idea.
The indoor chrysanths which you gave me have remained outdoors all the winter, and apart from a couple that I lost (through drought) early on, they are all throwing up cuttings. I think there must have been some outdoor varieties among them. I will try planting them out in the garden this year.
June has just finished a pixie hood for Carol. It is very nice and she likes it. Looks like Joseph’s coat.******** Could do with one myself as a balaclava.
Car still going well now. Coming up to the three thousand miles since we had it. How many miles did you do in it? Gave it a good clean last week, but it is as bad as ever again now.
Well there it is again for another week, will close and try and cope with the washers-up.
Love from us all.
*In this letter Alec emerges as clearly as ever as a man who did not want children and wanted nothing to do with them when he had them; he could never understand why they weren’t perfect little mini-adults with a sense of responsibility, a desire to learn, and the ability to be quiet and stay out of his way at all times. Someone once described Alec as ‘a selfish man’ and indeed it is difficult to think of one unselfish thing he did – before 1974 at least. You will notice that he refused to get involved with the grocery shopping, and that was a lifelong tradition; he was quite prepared to do the driving, but he waited outside in the car and let everyone else do the heavy lifting. Literally.
**See above. They were appalling parents, both of them.
***It occurs to me that maybe the Benns decided against Clevedon simply because Leonard and Eva were just too handy and too interested in their lives…
****Falling over and getting hurt at the ripe old age of five-and-a-half? Must be either deliberate or just clumsiness, and in either case it was further evidence of a flawed character.
*****And these are also idle children who draw things badly, how shocking! They should be studying calculus and reading Shakespeare at that age, surely?
******When crisps were first available, they came with a little blue paper twist in each packet which contained the salt so that you could add it yourself. IIRC this later became a sachet, but that phase didn’t last long before the companies began marketing ‘Ready Salted‘ crisps to which the salt had already been added. Now that people are slightly more aware of the effects of salt in their food, we now again have the option of buying crisps which have a sachet of salt included in the packet. What goes around comes around.
*******If it’s not free or cheap I don’t want it, and if I have to have it I will complain about the price.
********I can only imagine that he means ‘of many colours’ here, which seems unnecessarily mean and dismissive. June was a decent plain knitter and no kid of three-and-a-half cares whether they are wearing something perfect as long as it’s warm and comfortable. Alec just liked to be rude about females and children, and female children most of all. I think he was terrified of having anything like empathy towards any human female except his mother, and there wasn’t a great deal about for her either. What that says about his psychological make-up, I will happily leave to you.