Sunday 20th May, 1962

Alec to his parents:

Dear Mum and Dad,

Thanks once again for the weekly letter and also for Susan’s special one to which she has replied herself. I am afraid Susan rather spoiled her birthday as she was naughty in the days preceding and some of her presents had to be withheld for a time as punishment. To give you one example, she wrote out a lot of invitations to a party and invited a number of children to various venues including the park, and dished these out somewhat indiscriminately. We had a mother turn up here with a rather tearful child asking if the party in the park was on or not, as she had been there and could not find anyone else. In addition this woman knew of someone else who was waiting to know what was happening. I suppose she will accumulate some sense in due course. In any case I cannot think what the women were thinking of in taking an invitation from a child without confirming it. As it turned out she had quite a good birthday with lots of odds and ends. Thought you would like the one about the hearing aid.

All the workmen have finished here now but the foreman has many jobs lined up. Never satisfied are they?*

Sorry to say that the health problem is again with us this week. Carol has had a shocking dry cough for several days now. We have had it continuously day and night with little to relieve it. We tried Grandad’s cherry wine with a variation to his elderberry wine but not 100% successful. A wineglassfull [sic] does not seem to do the trick. Tried a substantial amount of the cherry the other night and that did it for the rest of the night. The cough is much looser now so on the way out presumably.

Susan went to a party yesterday and I collected her in the pouring rain at 6:30 p.m. She gave us a bit of a night of it too. We started off by putting her in the back room to let Carol have an undisturbed night (she having gone to bed early), but the arrangements soon got changed around as she woke us in the night saying she was sick. In the event I do not think she was, but she certainly had a nightmare, and could well have been bad by the size of the  piece of birthday cake I saw her mum up just before bedtime. I therefore found myself in the back room and Susan in with June. This lasted two hours during which they say they got no sleep, after which Susan was turned out and supposed to go back to her room. I heard her wandering about on the landing for sometime. Her explanation was that she could not sleep. A good sleeping draught was applied to her rear (enough for a small army) and she howled the place down**, waking Carol in the process. She more or less cried herself to sleep after that, and that was that except that I could hear Carol coughing for some time after. This being the third disturbed night on the trot we are not very bright this morning.

This morning is quite good, but it is the first such day for many weeks, I do not understand your reference to a few good days and being glad to get out of doors. We have had fire (electric) every evening, and needed a water bottle as well.

I have had experience of this Polycell and agree that it is good for not marking the paper if you get any on the front. Shall not bother with paper again in view of the expert finish, reasonable charge, and speed of the professional man.

Your curate it really seems to be in the wars. Not up for long was he? I suppose he will be able to get about in the chair or is it too far gone even for that? It means a lot if you can get out even if it is in a chair.

Glad you have got the electric cooker working again. Can’t see Mum cooking over a bunch of twigs out in the backyard.

The sweet peas have diminished in number, but most are still growing.

Hope you do get a visit from Mr Palmer just a nice short walk for him. Will he have benefited from his first op or or has not the operation been a success?

I am afraid I have the worst news to give you a regarding Aunt Eda. she passed away in her sleep about 3 p.m. on Tuesday afternoon. It seems that she was expecting it as she called in Uncle Rob to discuss financial matters in the morning (or previous day) and has said she did not want to carry on any longer. The expected has happened and as usual it has come as a surprise. The funeral will be on Monday at 2:30 p.m.. I am going but June will not be able to get away. Peter is getting some time off and taking Mr and Mrs Baker in the big car. I shall make it my business to be at West Drayton in the morning, and will go with them.

So far as the car is concerned, I took it into the garage and asked for a full servicing and pointed out that the engine was very rough. When I picked up the car they had done a good job on the oiling and greasing and the handbrake. All moving parts moved easily, the steering have been tightened, and there were no squeaks audible. However the engine was still very rough and they said compression was low in 2 and 3 cylinders probably due to cylinder head gasket having blown. I took the car away to think that one over, and in view of the fact that it had had no decarbonizing performed since new, I thought that the cause may be worse than they said. I decided to get a new cylinder head gasket and try to fit it myself and in doing so hope to find out if anything else wanted doing. Jacksons had offered to decarbonise the head etc fitting new rings etc.for £13 Peter rang up to say he had done his for about £2 with guidance from one of the partners of the adjacent garage. He offered to help me do it so I took the car over on Saturday. The conversation with the chap from the garage did not start on to healthy note as he said that there was not much point in overhauling the top of the engine without looking at the bottom especially in view of its length of run without attention. (The point being that we could put the top right but the bottom could go wrong at any time and the whole dismantling process would have to be under gone again.) He quoted £20 for the top overhaul assuming that the cylinder head had cracked – and £30 for a top and bottom overhaul. I asked him how much for a reconditioned engine and he said a new clutch should be bought at the same time as this was probably worn and greatest cost was the dismantling and assembly etc. He quoted £40 for the engine and clutch and £10 for fixing making £50 in all. I told him that the current value of the car was only about £100, which would still be the same if the overall was completed or not. He said that if Peter liked to get the head off, he would have a look at it and advise what should be done. This we agreed to do, and I ran the car into the back of number 155, and we spent the morning getting the cylinder head off. We found that the head was in perfect order, not having cracked even faintly. The head gasket had burst between number 2 and 3 cylinders and I had a replacement for 6/9d. There was considerable burned oil under the rocker cover and all over the rockers. Several of the valves seems to be seating badly and although we had to call a halt before we could remove the valves for inspection, I think that we may have to replace one or two. We can do the decarbonising and cleaning of the parts ourselves now, and reassembly. If we have to replace valves they work out at about 10/- each. The plugs are in working order, but replacements may be necessary after restoring the original compression in the pots. All in all an expense of approximately £5 will amply cover the job unless anything serious reveals itself. This is now unlikely as the worst part of the job is done.

So far June has had two lessons from the B.S.M. The drill is to have half an hour around side roads, and half an hour in traffic. It seems as if it is going well. June says she is a little more confident now. As it turns out she is not put out by moving in traffic. Just as well as there is a lot down this way. There has been no date fixed for test yet. The suggestion put forward – which is a good one – is that June has the first six lessons up to Whitsun, another six as soon as possible after, and then take her turn in driving when we are on holiday. The test can be arranged in August after she comes back.

I would not mind betting your neighbour did not pass over the whole of the M4. It bypasses Maidenhead and Slough when complete, but only cuts out Maidenhead at the moment. In any case it is worthwhile to avoid that town. So far as Slough is concerned, you can avoid that to if you wish by turning left off the A4 before you get to the main part of the town and making your way in the Burnham Direction. By moving towards the right (diagonally as it were) you can get on the Iver Heath Road and on to the A40 via the roundabout junction of the Uxbridge Road.

I am glad Moule got in for the West End. Liberals shaking them a bit now. The Conservative was returned here with 1434 with the Liberal second with 1299. Labour collected 870.

I expect I can bring on ten tomato plants if you have that many spare. June has asked me to say that if you have anything vaguely looking like a rockery plant we are interested. Do not bother with the dahlias. I shall not plant any this year now.

Our next door neighbours will be going in July and will be moving into a new garden. They will have to do a lot of work on it to make it into something worth sitting in. If you have any cuttings of practically anything that just wants sticking in the ground they will be pleased to have them. I know you have a lot of work to do, but I expect you can find an odd corner for privet cuttings and things like that. They want us to go over to see them when they are down there.

The trouble at Acton has quietened down for awhile. I have a meeting with them on Tuesday at which they will put their complaints and proposals. I already have an unofficial copy. Not much wants putting right. Other fish in the sea now. I have to start off Southall and Newbury. Want a day off to visit Newbury I should think. Apple blossom has blown away now, but the lilac is still flowering. Nothing else of colour if you except the Siberian wall flowers in the hedge.

Have not tried any more of the grape wine, but will have to start on something soon.

By the time Messrs Hewitt and Aston are joined by Mr Palmer, you will have a panel of three judges. I should give them slips of paper and ask them to judge the produce.

Your motor insurance is lower than mine. As you know I get nothing for no claim this time. The full sum is about the same as yours but Mr Grey knocked off his discount. I think the last lot cost me about £18.

Good crack about the runner beans. He cannot lose.

Spoke to Geoff on the phone on Tuesday and he seems largely to have lost interest in railway matters. I cannot say I blame him. All that is wanted now is reduction in cost. Less wages, less expenses, less people, more work person etc. etc. Mr McDonald now has to authorise any work on Sundays.

What is the position about the pond? Is there any life in it? Is there any water in it? I cannot think that all the creatures have died without trace.

Bad luck on the bath. this is a case of biter bit though. Cornish is one up there. I wonder you do not get in touch with a plumber and get him to tip you off when he renews cold water tanks. They usually leave the old ones to the owners to dispose of. It should not be difficult to patch up a tank sufficiently to hold water outdoors. You can have ours if you can move it.

Our kitchen has been completed so far as the woodwork is concerned, but the painting has yet to be done.

So you have been doing the twist. I should have liked to have seen that.

Cannot remember that Dad had a vine to plant. When can we expect the grapes, or will they be too sour?

Had not heard of Miss Hieatt for some long time how long has she been in Australia? How old is Suzanne Moore? Is she older than the boy? I remember him when he was in his pram.

Well I must close now as dinner in the offing. Clouds have come over to spoil the day which was very sunny to start with. We took some photos in the garden just after breakfast, when the sky was blue. Not much sign of blue now.

Well there it is again for another week. It will not be long before you are up – just two weeks. We are all looking forward to it as I expect you are.

Love from us all for now.

*Why are you?

**Outstanding parenting!

Wednesday 16th May, 1962

Leonard to the family:

Dear Alec June Susan and Carol

Once again many thanks for your letters received this morning together with a drawing from, we think, Carol. Thank you Carol for such a nice one. Yes we expect Susan was getting a bit excited over the weekend in anticipation of her birthday and we hope she’s having a very nice day although a lot of it must be spent at school. We are thinking of her today. From what you say she seems to be full of mischief although it is all innocent. No doubt she will grow out of it soon but better that way than to be ‘namby-pamby’ all the time. Shall have to suggest a new slogan “Don’t forget the hearing aid Dad.”* That was a good one about the singing on Sunday – not lost for an answer.

You have had another busy week with your decorating arrangements etc. and we note from June’s letter that two workmen were at 84 on Monday. Must surely be nearing completion now. We shall have quite a lot to inspect when we arrive.

Glad to hear you are all keeping fairly well – keep it up now for a few weeks. The weather is making us feel very tired, being outdoors in the wind most of the day we do not want to do very much in the evenings but we are not grumbling. It is so nice to have a few good days that we are glad to be able to be outdoors. Sunday not too good here either – a cold wind most of the time. Even today although quite sunny there is a distinct north-east wind blowing. No more suggestions of frost but I’m still watching the runner beans daily.

Note June running about looking for a suitable ladder for the paper hanger – wonder he brought his own brushes. I’m afraid it would have taken me longer than that to do the landing and hall. Still as we have said before every man to his own trade. These kind of people however must be having a fairly lean time with so many trying the do-it-yourself business. Note your remarks about the Polycell but believe me if you are doing it yourself the Polycell is the best because if you get the paste on the front side of the paper it will try right out and leave no trace whatsoever but most of the other kinds leave a dirty mark.

I went down to Mr Palmer’s house last Friday evening and Mrs Palmer told me she was expecting Mr Palmer home the next day and that Roy Prescott was fetching him. Have not seen or heard anything of him since but suggested to Mrs Palmer that when he was fit enough he might like to walk down this far one morning as it was pretty certain I should be about. So far he has not turned up but I expect he has to go slowly at first.

The Curate is back in bed again at this time I think he realises he will never properly recover. Has already indicated that he must resign. Should say he is just about sixty years of age.

Mum had the oven attended to yesterday but not until we had made a second approach to the Electric Light  people. Oven now in order. We have had it six years and in regular use so cannot complain.

Note slugs busy with the asters but that you have saved sweet peas. I’ve lost a few cabbage plants by slugs but so far not one runner bean. The sweet peas were attacked by the birds as I mentioned previously but counter measures have been successful and no further losses have occurred.

Glad to hear June’s father and mother keeping very well but sorry to learn Miss Baker not too good. Her age unfortunately is against her there.

That trouble with the car you mention I remember on one occasion the same fault occurred when I had it but what was diagnosed I have not the faintest recollection. It had to be put right at the garage. Query something to do with the magneto. How are you getting on June with the learning? If the final one is on the morning of the day of our arrival do I understand it will be the actual test? Next door neighbour Bushell although he knows the inside and outside of any car so far as if repairs are concerned has not yet passed his own driving test and is waiting to go to Weston any day for it. Meanwhile his £10 car is standing in the drive.

It was our other next door neighbour (Heel) who told us the Maidenhead bypass was completed. They passed over it during the Easter period.

Fancy meeting the chap who dumps the earth. Perhaps the field is nearer to his house than your lawn hence is continuing to dump in field. Will he supply enough for your needs?

You will see in this week’s Mercury that Moule got in by a large number of votes. We thought it was the one who was at Weston same time as yourself.

Tomato plants with pleasure. Will bring on as many as you can deal with so please say number required – allowing for a few failures. The dahlia cuttings not too special but still a few weeks to go before we come up and time for them to improve.

We had to laugh over your efforts to get into the garage but it could have been no laughing matter to you at the time. What an extraordinary thing to happen.

I shall be able to utilise the pair of wheels all right but the need at the moment is for a good size Tates sugar box and I expect these are very hard to come by nowadays.

No further news then of next door people’s movements. Note you did not fancy putting in for a good Work Study job at Harrogate. Should think Harrogate quite a nice place but very expensive. In any case I should keep in the southern part of the country if possible because the winters are much better. You probably know the trend of staff movement – since all-line advertising – is from the north to the south. Still you must keep your eyes open for anything good that is going. There is going to be a very lean time in the not-too-distant future because of the number of staff becoming redundant. Heard recently that even Paddington is on the list for consideration. The suggested alternative however seems ridiculous – ‘Marylebone’. It is only a pint-sized station in itself but I suppose the B.T.C. must have a home station.

Note you are having a bit of trouble at Acton. Everybody seems to be looking for trouble these days.

Your lilac flowering on the Benns’ side of hedge reminds me that we once had a lovely honeysuckle in the hedge between us and Mr Beames. It was a mass of bloom on his side but no flowers at all on ours. I could not seem to alter it so eventually cut it down.

Back to June’s letter again for a moment. Thank you June for the invitation to lunch on the 7th prox. but I do not think we shall make 84 by 12:15 p.m. so please do not wait for us. Best of luck when you take the driving test.

Not much local news but just a review of this week’s gardening efforts. Have now finished digging the small plot beyond greenhouse and for the time being have put in some rooted chrysanthemum cuttings to mature. Have weeded the strawberry bed and hoed through the raspberry canes, also dug a plot of ground from which some winter green stumps have been removed. Pricked out several boxes of flower seedlings and sowed more carrot and cabbage seed. The apple trees continue to blossom and frost has not damaged any. Mum has put a lot of plants in the flower borders and cut grass around edges of plots in lawn etc. Have once again cut the grass on all lawns and my word it was long. The rain last week simply pushed everything up. Plenty of dandelions about but have not thought of making any wine.

Have you used all the grape wine yet? Am now sampling a bottle of last year’s elderberry – not too bad.

Found a blackbirds nest in hedge of lawn this week with five eggs in it.

Mum and I are going to pop into Weston tomorrow (Thursday) morning to have a look round the poor man’s Emporium for a few things.** We visited the Post Office again on Monday last for the second monthly instalment of retirement benefit. Roy Hewitt and Mr Aston both arrived on a visit of inspection this morning about 11:30 a.m. so in about half an hour the three of us were able to make a lot of suggestions for putting the railways back on a paying footing again. Roy says he has just received his tickets for the Norway holiday they start on June 1st.

Have just renewed my motor insurance for another year, £20 10s less £6 3s for No Claim discount, nett £14 7s. How does this work out with yours?

Went down to Elfords [local store] the other evening for a couple of sixpenny ice creams and he said “Your sixpenny ice creams will be sevenpence each thanks to the budget.” Told him my  runner beans would therefore be a penny a pound more this season as I had to balance my accounts. He reckons that when the common market comes into working all vegetables will be much cheaper because of the dumping by other countries. It’s a case of tails I win heads you lose.

Have had no comment from Don on the increase in price of cider owing to the budget. No letter from Geoff since I last wrote – suppose he is still busy doing away with his own job.

Should like to have seen Susan and Carol doing their pieces last Sunday, expect they both looked forward to it. Must tell Susan we are waiting for story number 3. It was number 2 we had last week.

Mum gone to T.G. today and not expected home very early, having tea there. I believe she has several outings in the offing but she must tell you about them in her letter.

Have been down to the river again but the lad who wanted to keep his canoe there has not made use of the mooring facilities available. No logs saiing by whilst I was there.

Yesterday morning when Mum and I were about to go up to the library we noticed workmen had arrived at Miss Weekes’ old house and had already got the bath out into the roadway. I said I would find out when we got back if it was for disposal as I could do with another bath for rainwater collecting. When we arrived back however Cornish was there with bath already loaded up onto his barrow and about to make tracks for his own place.

Quite a lot of alterations are being made in the house and at the moment the men are making a proper drive-in with double gates.

No more now so will close with all our love to you both and lots of kisses for our two little singers Susan and Carol.

Mum and Dad.

*This is probably a reference to “Don’t forget the fruit gums, Mum!”

**More than likely this is a reference to Woolworth’s!